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You are here: Home / Information / Rumours of a cancelled Christmas have been greatly over-exaggerated

Rumours of a cancelled Christmas have been greatly over-exaggerated

December 20, 2020 By chippy minton 7 Comments

Headlines across many of the today’s Sunday papers have been along the lines of “Christmas is Cancelled”, “The virus that stole Christmas” and other such hyperbole.  No, Christmas is not cancelled; Christmas has not been stolen.

December 25, Christmas Day, will still arrive this Friday.  OK, it may arrive in a different way than expected and we may have to spend a couple of days this week in reassessing and rearranging our plans.  But arrive it will surely do.

Negative language such as “killed”, “cancelled” and “ruined” gives pessimistic connotations to the thought of a scaled-back Christmas.  So rather than a problem, let’s see this as an opportunity.

When major upsets to my plans occur, my initial strategy is to stop and decide what is really important to me, and what am I still able to do.  Often there is a great deal of correlation between the two.  I also remember occasions when plans have been thwarted in the past and how the new result was better than the original would have been.

For example, Christmas Dinner is still possible – though it may be on a smaller table and with fewer place settings than usual.

You’ve probably heard of the maxim: the person who never made a mistake, never made anything.  A variant came into my head today: the person whose plans were always fulfilled never fulfilled anything.

So, what could be some of the advantages of a scaled-back, socially distanced Christmas?

  • You don’t have to spend Christmas Eve frantically tidying and cleaning the house for the visitors arriving on Christmas Day.  No one is visiting on Christmas Day.
  • No visitors on Christmas Day also means no need to get up and dressed.  If your ideal Christmas Day relaxation is to stay in bed until min-afternoon, and then eat a bowl of Weetabix washed down with a glass of sherry – crack on.  Who’s going to stop you. [just a reminder to the teenagers of the Chippy household that this is not an option]
  • Fewer people in the house mean fewer argument about what to watch on TV.  Or, indeed, fewer arguments full stop.
  • You can still video call your loved ones.  And when you get bored with them you can instigate a network failure by “accidentally” switching off the router.
  • Livestreamed church services mean that, for the first time, we can share our worship with those far away.  Chippy and Mrs Chippy have parents and siblings spread throughout the world’s time zones (from 13 hours ahead of GMT to 5 hours behind).  Christmas Eve evening and Christmas Day morning livestreamed services means that all our family could join us at church for at least one Christmas service. That’s never happened before.
  • You don’t have to struggle to find space in the freezer to store food left over from Christmas lunch because you are going away on Boxing Day.  You’re not going away on Boxing Day, so can eat the food.
  • With fewer (or no) parties, there will be a glut of party food in the shops.  Get ready for some hefty price reductions.

But wait.  It’s time to stop and think.  I know I’ve put a rose-tinted spin on this post.  I’ve treated in a very light-hearted way what some people will see as a real problem.  I am lucky in that I will be able to spend Christmas with my immediate family.  We had already decided to not travel to visit extended family, so the new restrictions have had little effect on our plans.  But I fully understand that while many people will be able to accept the new Christmas restrictions, many other will struggle.  It is important that those of us who can cope reach out to those who cannot.  And it’s even more important that those who who do struggle are not afraid to ask for help.

But let’s not forget what Christmas is really about:

 

 

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About chippy minton

I've lived in Chandler's Ford and Eastleigh for most of my adult life, having recently returned after seven years in north-west Hampshire (though remaining a regular visitor to the area).

I work in IT, and my hobbies include bell ringing, walking and cycling. I volunteer with St John Ambulance and am also a self-confessed “born-again runner” having discovered parkrun in 2015.

I enjoy watching live theatre and music, and try to watch many of the shows that are performed in the Eastleigh area.

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  1. Robbie Sprague says

    December 20, 2020 at 11:00 pm

    For me Christmas has become monumentally extravagant, excessive, indulgent humbug – a million miles away from the simple pleasures of my childhood when a present and a stocking full of nuts, a tangerine and an apple and a few small toys were excitement enough. The health, happiness and wellbeing of my dear friends and family, wherever in the world they are, and a contribution to a worthy cause are, at the end of the day, all that really matter. Convivial times over a nice meal and a glass of wine (or three) with laughter and good craic will return in the fullness of time.
    I have to say, my favourite parts of Christmas have always been Carols from King’s College on Christmas Eve, and Boxing Day with its assorted cold meats and pickles in a less frenetic atmosphere followed by a good walk.

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    • chippy minton says

      December 21, 2020 at 8:33 am

      Yes, the Boxing Day meal is the best meal of the period. Something about the mix of sweet pickle with hot potato and butter

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  2. Jeanne Bartram says

    December 21, 2020 at 1:31 am

    The first Christmas was very simple – its ok if yours is too

    I really like this so much – I have stolen it in a screen shot, forgive me. its so apt,

    Christmas is meaningless if its just commercial – its about friendship and humanity,
    Its about kindness – ts goodwill to all men as in 1918 WWI Christmas truce. Its sentimental – its Christmas carols playing in the background. Some of God’s greatest gifts are unanswered prayers – I am alone this year – my family have given me the gift of protecting me. I am fine – I intend to enjoy it.

    You can choose to wallow in self pity but its not much fun and not my style. I will however remember those who have absent loved ones taken too soon from Covid and hope they find peace & comfort

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    • chippy minton says

      December 21, 2020 at 8:37 am

      As Youngest Child pointed out to me, choosing 25 December as Christmas Day was fairly arbitrary. There’s no reason why we can’t choose to celebrate Christmas on 25 March, or April, or any other day we fancy.

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  3. Anne says

    December 21, 2020 at 7:42 am

    What a lovely positive post amongst all the negativity

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  4. Allison Symes says

    December 21, 2020 at 9:22 am

    Many thanks, Chippy. We need more positive things like this lovely post. And I hope everyone has as safe and as happy a Christmas as possible. All things pass….

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  5. Mike Sedgwick says

    December 21, 2020 at 9:47 am

    Christmas comes in many forms. I recall a Christmas interrupted by a V1 bomb alert during WWII, the Uncle who insisted on children’s silence and a cigar during the King’s Speech, Christmas on duty at the hospital, and recently Christmas Carols in Sri Lanka (https://chandlersfordtoday.co.uk/unusual-carol-concert-sri-lanka-mike-sedgwick/) and Christmases celebrated with our own child for the first time. All had their own magic once the shopping was over.

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